Support for couples who want to understand how autism affects their relationship.
When one partner identifies as neurodiverse, differences in social communication can put strain on the relationship. Our couples consultation helps both partners understand those differences and build a stronger connection.
How autism can affect a relationship
People with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) often communicate socially in their own way. Without shared understanding, these differences can:
- Affect how each partner feels heard and understood
- Lead to misunderstandings in everyday communication
- Interfere with closeness and intimacy
We've found that couples benefit from learning more about how ASD may be affecting them.

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How we help
Consultation focuses on education and practical skills for both partners:
Education for the partner without ASD
Learn how autism can shape communication, behavior, and connection.
Skill-building for the partner with ASD
Develop helpful strategies and a deeper understanding of the relationship.
Shared goals
Build empathy and strengthen the relationship together.
Partner support group
Join our clinician led support group for partners in neurodiverse relationships — a space to connect, share experiences, and find support.
What to expect
Couples consultation is collaborative and tailored to your relationship. Here's how the process works:
- Initial assessment: Your therapist meets with you and your partner together to learn about your needs, strengths, concerns and goals.
- Personalized plan: Sessions focus on the goals that matter most to you and your partner.
- Therapy & coaching sessions: Partners attend weekly or biweekly sessions focused on communication and building skills.
Evaluation and testing
Wondering whether you or your partner meets the criteria for ASD? SociAbility offers psychological evaluation and testing options.

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Schedule a consultation
SociAbility is in Northbrook & Grayslake, Illinois, and serves Chicagoland, the North Shore, and Lake County. Your health insurance may cover individual therapy and testing, so contact us for details.
For scheduling or questions about individual services and psychological evaluations: